Would you ever settle for a guy that loves you to death but he is not your cup of tea, just because you don’t want to be single or you started to doubt that your dream guy exists, or you are hoping that you’ll eventually love him as much as he loves you?

Dream guy would be someone you knew you loved and could accept his imperfections as readily as he could accept yours. Hence, settling would mean that you will be staying with someone you could not truly love or be happy with because it seemed “less bad” than being single.

If you settle with a guy just because you are afraid of being single for the rest of your life, then you will be unhappy as the day goes by. You are likely to break his heart at later stage by telling him that you are not suitable for him.

You should be honest about how you feel, It will not be fair for the girl to lead the guy on & make him waste his feelings on the girl, and don’t worry too much about his feelings; you can’t keep pretending that you love him. The guy might be hurt at first, by breaking up with him early; you will give him a chance to recover faster and find someone that suits him. He deserves a chance to find happiness with someone who loves him as much as he would love her.

However, some believe that it is better to be with someone who’s madly in love with you, because they will be an accommodating, thoughtful spouse in the future. It is much less painful to be the one who loves less than the one who loves more, because if you love more, he will not work for your love as much. Does that make sense? If you are not in love with the person at this time, could you find aspects of his personality to appreciate?