“I Love You” & “I’ m In Love With You” Is there a difference?
I don’t remember where I picked this thing up. But It just strikes my mind again today…Is there a different?

Being a person who learnt English as second language, I don’t see a different between the two in the beginning. To me, it was just different phrase to express your love to someone.
Come to think of it the second time, it can mean different thing depends on how you use it. “I love you” can be used in romantic way but you can also love other people just not in romantic way. For instance, you can love your friends but you’re not “in” love with them. You can say “I love you” to anything, your wife, your uncle, your mum or your pet but you will not say “I’ m in love with you”.

“In love with you” is more intense and only shows romantic feelings. So when someone says they are in love with you. It’s a whole deeper meaning… not something that would be used on a more casual basis.

The word love is tossed around so much that when it’s said to you personally, or you say it to someone you need to mean it. I love pizza, I love that dress etc. See…it’s just too easy to say you love something.

If you are too shy to meet up with women, here could be the solution. In June 2008, Sega Toys introduced the Eternal Maiden Actualization (EMA) robot. The curvy, feminine-looking android is 15 inches tall and can plant kisses on humans. Sega officials say EMA can “act like a real girlfriend.

This prompted me to think further. How long more will it take to see a 100% human like look and feel “robot”? Technology has advanced enough to satisfy our need for love and sex, we finally see the fantasy become a reality with the release of this robotic girlfriend. Is this what we want for our future? If the technology advancement makes the robots totally human like, there will a day that we see more human having a robotic partners rather than real human being.

The good things are more peoples will live happily because they can choose and “programme” their ideal partner the way they like. The introvert men don’t have to worry about no partner. The robots will be able to perform anything from housework to satisfying your sexual needs (And they don’t complain, I assume…). There will be no worry about food shortages since these peoples don’t eat like we do.

On the other hand, these phenomena will cause reduction in the world’s population. There will also be the day when human being ruled by robots as the number of real human will become too little to command. There will be a day when we don’t know whether the person we meet is a real one or robot (robot may also pick up one bad habit from the human being, lyingJ)

The EMA robot will go on sale in September for around $175 and will be targeted towards lonely adult men. Sega is hoping to sell over 10,000 units in the first year.

Using her infrared sensors and battery power, the EMA enters into a sort of “love mode” and will pucker up to kiss any nearby human heads. She can also walk and dance when in the presence of another human being. For the moment, this is what she can do but expect more from the future version of robotic girlfriend.

Please comment to share your thoughts… Good day!

Yesterday, I came to know more about the photo of the man who carried his wife dead body on the motorcycle after the 512 Sichuan earthquake. In my previous post title His Love To His Wife, I mentioned that the man who use his motorcycle to carry his wife’s dead body to the nearby mortuary. In fact, that was not the true story. But his love to his wife is true. It is suppose to be like this…

The man, Mr. Wu had just had his lunch with his wife on 12 May. Mrs Wu wanted to go to the town to charge her handphone (god know why one need to go to the town area to get her handphone charged). There she separated with Mr Wu who went home then. After the earthquake which struck Sichuan at 2.28pm, Mr Wu who was escape unscratched, rush to the town centre to look for Mrs Wu. To his disappointment, Mr Wu found his wife’s body under the rubble of a collapsed structure. With the help of the police presented there, Mrs Wu’s body was safely tied to Mr.Wu.s body on the motorcycle. That was the normal position Mrs Wu had as a pillion rider. She normally talk to Mr. Wu when Mr Wu fetched her but that day, Mrs Wu could no longer talk. Mr Wu carried a cold and silent body of his wife.

He took his wife body home and buried her body at his house front yard as he wants to see his wife everyday.

The 512 earthquake in Sichuan, China has destroyed many families and separated many peoples from their love ones. I am sadden to see that many children have lost their parents and parents have lost their children. Not to mention also wife who lost her husband and vise versa. It is just too devastating.

Among all the photos that I came across, I’m quite touch with this one. The photo shows a man tried to use his motorcycle to carry his wife’s dead body to the nearby mortuary. Reason being, he did not want his wife body to be exposed under that kind of condition in the ruin city. This is maybe his last chance to show his care and love to his wife.

I salute this man and hope that the journey was a smooth one.

I hope that the Sichuan peoples can recover as soon as possible in order to face the challenges ahead of them.

Would like to wish all mothers a Happy Mother’s Day!

1. I can be myself when I am with you.

2. Your idea of romance is dim lights, soft music, and just the two of us.

3. Because you make me feel like, I have never felt before.

4. Your undying faith is what keeps the flame out of love alive.

5. You and me together, we can make magic.

6. Thinking of you fills me with a wonderful feeling.

7. Your love gives me the feeling that the best is still ahead.

8. You never give up on me, and that’s what keeps me going.

9. You are simply irresistible.

10. I love you because you bring the best out of me.

11. Every time I look at you, my heart misses a beat.

12. You’re the one who holds the key to my heart.

13. You always say what I need to hear (You are perfect).

14. You have taught me the true meaning of love.

15. Love is, what you mean to me - and you mean everything.

16. I have had the time of my life and I owe it all to you.

17. When I look into your eyes, I can see your heart.

18. I love to hear your voice.

19. Your love has helped me to rediscover myself.

20. Your love is an effective anti-dote to despair.

21. I love to wake up with you by my side…It makes my days better.

22. You always make me feel that you are by my side no matter what.

23. I love that feeling of being secure when you wrap your arms around me.

24. I love the way you keep your cool when I do something stupid.

25. Just being with you feels like I can defy the whole world.

26. You mean the world to me.

27. I like your small gestures that speak volumes about how much you care.

28. I love the way you treasure the gifts that I gave you.

29. I love the way you patch up with me after a tumultuous fight.

30. And, of-course, your intelligence, ’cause you were smart enough to fall for me.

Happy Valentines Day! 

Time flies and in a flash, we are coming to the end of 2007.

I wish to thank all readers for visiting the Lovecot.com, contributing to and providing valuable feedback since the inception of this blog months ago.

Come 2008, we hope that you will continue to support me and my blog.

Thank you and a happy new year to all!

From,

HARVEY

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